Children begin by loving parents, as they grow older they judge them, sometimes they forgive them. (O. Wilde)

THEMATIC ESSAY

Children begin by loving parents, as they grow older they judge them, sometimes they forgive them. (O. Wilde)

Each person has mental images of their parents that form their Parent. Sometimes a person behaves, speaks, gestures, and thinks the way their parents did. Sometimes a person is influenced by their internal messages.

Parental transactions are inherently caring or biased. They are used with adults as often as with children. For example, the caring side of a parent is appropriate if They respond to a work colleague's temporary need for care and empathy when they are too agitated or ill. A parent is used inappropriately when they are forcibly parenting, criticizing, or showing disrespect to another person who doesn't want to, doesn't want to hear it, or doesn't need it.

The parent is a transmitter of cultural and family scenarios. It is valuable and necessary for the human race, as it facilitates the fulfillment of parental tasks, freeing the adult to solve more complex problems of existence.

Every child is born with certain inherited qualities, in a certain economic, emotional, social environment, and is guided by certain authorities.

Every child experiences significant events in their life, such as the death of a family member, illness, punishment, accidents, relocation, and economic crises. These events contribute to the uniqueness of each individual's childhood. There are no two children, even in the same family, who have the same childhood.

The brain and nervous system of each of us contains records of how we felt our urges as a child, how we perceived this world, how we felt about this world, and how we adapted to it. The Parent's state of Self unites individuals who are emotionally significant authorities; the Child's state of Self represents the inner world of feelings, experiences, and adaptations.

Unfortunately, children often suffer because of their parents ' mistakes. Growing up, forming their thinking, they begin to realize the wrongness in the behavior of their parents, which often causes condemnation. Therefore, it is important for parents to build such relationships with their children in order to avoid such problems. It is important to remember that children look at our behavior, our way of communicating, how our lives are developing and how we respond to difficulties.

Being a parent is a big responsibility, because their future, their relationships with people and with their family depend on us. Be good people and remember that children look at us and copy our behavior patterns.