Social Emotional Learning:
Self-Care for Stronger Teachers
February 22, 2024 Dr. Jennifer Eidum
Associate Professor of English, Elon University English Language Specialist
Teacher Self-Care Practices
4 . Dimensions of Self-Care
Physical (the body)
Emotional (the heart)
Ps y chological (the mind)
Spiritual (the spirit)
Crisis & Trauma Resource Institute (CTRI)
What is Self-Care?
Myth
Reality
Self-care is treating or pampering yourself
Self-care is taking care of your physical and mental health (i.e. going to the doctor or dentist, replacing exercise clothing, or having a healthy lunch)
Self-care is selfish Self-care seeks balance between the needs of the
people you care about and your individual needs
You can find a list of good Self-care depends on YOU!
self-care behaviors
The best self-care is Self-care is often social, sharing important parts of
spending time with yourself yourself with others
What is Self-Care?
Myth
Reality
Self-care is treating or pampering yourself
Self-care is taking care of your physical and mental health (i.e. going to the doctor or dentist, replacing exercise clothing, or having a healthy lunch)
Self-care is selfish
Self-care seeks balance between the needs of the people you care about and your individual needs
You can find a list of good Self-care depends on YOU!
self-care behaviors
The best self-care is Self-care is often social, sharing important parts of
spending time with yourself yourself with others
What is Self-Care?
Myth
Reality
Self-care is treating or pampering yourself
Self-care is taking care of your physical and mental health (i.e. going to the doctor or dentist, replacing exercise clothing, or having a healthy lunch)
Self-care is selfish
Self-care seeks balance between the needs of the people you care about and your individual needs
You can find a list of good self-care behaviors
Self-care depends on YOU and your specific needs!
The best self-care is Self-care is often social, sharing important parts of
spending time with yourself yourself with others
What is Self-Care?
Myth
Reality
Self-care is treating or pampering yourself
Self-care is taking care of your physical and mental health (i.e. going to the doctor or dentist, replacing exercise clothing, or having a healthy lunch)
Self-care is selfish
Self-care seeks balance between the needs of the people you care about and your individual needs
You can find a list of good self-care behaviors
Self-care depends on YOU and your specific needs!
The best self-care is spending time with yourself
Self-care is often social, sharing important parts of yourself with others
Self-Care Definition
“ [...] self-care is further defined as the ability to care for oneself through awareness, self-control, and self-reliance in order to achieve, maintain, or promote optimal health and well-being. Three attributes were identified: awareness,
self-control, and self-reliance.”
Martínez et al. (2021)
5 Dimensions of SEL
Self-Awareness
Relationship Skills
Self-Management
Responsible Decision-Making
Social Awareness
What is Wellness?
Being healthy in many dimensions of your life, including emotional, environmental, financial, intellectual, occupational, physical, social, and spiritual aspects.
SAMHSA 2016
Teacher Self-Care Practices
1. Self Assessments
Wellness Wheel Assessment
University of New Hampshire Wellness Wheel
Note: this is not my survey, but an instrument that was recommended by others. I am not connected to its creation or its results.
Wellness Wheel Assessment
University of New Hampshire Wellness Wheel
F eelings Wheel
- Name your basic feeling
- Expand your feeling
- Get precise with your feeling
- Search the wheel for a feeling you know
- Look nearby for similar feelings
- Look to the middle for the core feeling
- Reflect on what that tells you about how you’re feeling
2. Work Prioritization
Work Prioritization
Teachers ALWAYS have more work to do!
Tips for prioritization:
- Focus on what must be done vs. should be done.
- Notice what tasks are important to you vs. urgent to others.
- Find ways to reduce time for repetitive, unimportant tasks.
Work Prioritization
Teachers ALWAYS have more work to do!
Tips for prioritization:
- Celebrate completing 1-3 “must do” tasks each day.
- Schedule uninterrupted time for important tasks (more time than you’d think!).
- Take breaks to refresh your mood & energy (which also helps you look at the big picture).
Your job will never love you back.
3. Integrate Self-Care Strategies
Wellness Wheel Assessment
University of New Hampshire Wellness Wheel
Takeaways:
- I’m generally doing well in most areas of my life.
- I need to focus most on physical wellness (3.4), spiritual wellness (4.0), and environmental wellness.
T a k eaw a ys:
This might look like:
- I’m generally doing well in most areas of my life.
- I need to focus most on physical wellness (3.4), spiritual wellness (4.0), and environmental wellness.
- Fitness class with a friend
- Hiking more, alone & with family
- Rethinking how I shop, cook, & process food waste
Possible Self-Care Strategies
Integrate Self-Care Strategies
Say No → Not Yet
Say No → Suggest Alternative
Find time to “do nothing”
Thank you!
Dr. Jennifer Eidum
Associate Professor of English, Elon University English Language Specialist
jeidum@elon.edu