“You never get a second chance to make a great first impression.”

“You never get a second chance to make a great first impression.”

Will Rogers

What are first impressions?

First impressions are the almost-instant conclusions we draw when meeting someone for the first time. We form this opinion by quickly taking in information about a person, including their face, dress and tone of voice.

A first impression becomes a filter that we use for all future interactions with that person. It can be very difficult to change someone’s first impression of us.

All of your relationships are affected by the first impression that you make.

If people’s first impression of you is that you are friendly and competent, they are more likely to feel comfortable around you. They are then more likely to consider you a friend and open up to you.

5 tips for making a great first impression.

Now that we’ve covered why first impressions are so important, here are some tips to nail that first meeting.

1. Make eye contact

Eye contact is a nonverbal form of communication.

Maintaining eye contact also shows that you’re paying attention to the other person and listening to what they are saying.

2. Smile

A sincere smile puts people at ease and makes people feel welcome.

A genuine smile reaches your eyes and creates an impression of trust and sincerity.

3. Dress for the occasion

Make sure that your clothing is appropriate for the situation. Dressing too casually for a job interview is likely to create the impression that you aren’t serious about the job.

4. Be a good communicator

A good communicator listens more than talk. A good guideline for this is to talk only a third as much as you listen.

5. Use positive body language

Body language is a large part of communication. Some basic guidelines for positive body language are:

• Stand or sit up straight, and hold your head up. You will present yourself as comfortable and confident.
• Avoid crossing your arms or legs. This subconsciously closes you off from the other person.
• Offer your hand for a good, firm handshake that is confident but not crushing.

A good first impression can provide many benefits. It offers you advantages, both short and long term, in your personal and professional life. With attention to detail and practice, you can create an impression that lasts.