We have spoken about our theme for several lessons and it’s time to summer it up I mean a project lesson. The main problem of our lesson is to speak about family issues, teenagers’ problems and generation gaps. And now you can present the following items in our “Family magazines” we have a paper magazine. Here you see it. На доске большими буквами написано название журнала. First read criteria for our project. Let’s introduce. Учащиеся читают в режиме ученик 1- ученик 2 и т.д. And now we should choose Editor-in- chief and a Deputy Editor what are your suggestions. Roman please. Учащиеся предлагают свои кандидатуры. Well Editor-in- chief will be Mineahmetov Nail and a Deputy Editor – Abdreev Nijaz and you know your responsibilities. You see we have headlines in our magazine. Редактор просит представить свой материал по подзаголовкам которые приклепляются к журналу на доске. They are: family issues, teenagers’ problems, generation gaps, family’s secrets. You see here we put our articles. You have only 4 minutes for you presentations. Let’s start. All of you have guessed the main points of the problem we’ll touch upon today. We’ll speak about family issues. Nail please. Ученик начинает рассказывать о семейных ценностях. Прослушав выступления, учащиеся задают вопросы. Students do you have any questions. Zhenja please. One of the most important features of the family is misunderstanding, isn’t it? Roman what can you say about it? My problem is that my parents don’t like my girl-friend. They are very strict and think that I’m too young to have serious relations. They don’t allow me to go on… I’m a 17-year-old student who needs advice. I live with my family and study at the university. With my beloved girl I met a year ago when I was at school. We are good friends and even more we are going to be together forever. We enjoy being together. dates and even don’t want to hear about her. My parents make my life miserable. I get very depressed. I keep my stuff in a suitcase to leave my home in a suitable moment. What advice could you give to him? Your parents worry about you. Your parents may want to prevent you from making mistakes. They know how hard it is to make a success in this life and they want you to be very well prepared for it. You should talk to your mother and speak about your feelings. You see some teens have problems in their families. How to deal when your parents are really from a different world? Please Nastya. What problems can we see? Lack Of Privacy- Sometimes children don’t have their own room, and they have to share the room with sisters and brothers. Children can’t shut the door, stay along and relax. It is impossible to keep anything secret – nothing is safe. Sisters And Brothers - Not always brothers and sisters have good relation. They can fall out, showing up in front of friends, make nasty little comments, nag, make fun. They can’t divide different things, own room, toys, sweets etc. Lack Of Freedom - Parents want to know what their child is doing and with whom. Children in these families must go home very early. Parents say what their children have to do, they don’t make go to different celebrations and trips. Children must obey theirs parents. Teacher: Good. Do you think parents know about their teenagers’ problems? I think sometimes parents don’t know about their chidren’s problems. Do you think teenagers know about their parents’ problems? I think not always What are the things children and their parents argue about? On my opinion about fashion, music, What is the background of all the problems in a family? Misunderstanding (generation gap) Please Dilyara: Generation gap will always exist not only because teenagers and their parents enjoy listening different kinds of music. A lot of things are different : tastes, manners, behaviour, and the stuff like that. Teens often think that their parents just make fun of them. They do not let them hang out with their friends. They are always nagging when their children do badly at school. They make them do their homework, though sometimes it is unnecessary. Teens often feel a lack of privacy because their parents want to know that they are up to. More than that-it is impossible for them to keep anything secret. T: Is a compromise possible? P1 What kind of a compromise would you suggest? P2 Building a bridge Yes you are right. How to bridge the «generation gap» 1.Parents should understand sudden changes of mood of the teenagers, the strange hobbies, a new lexicon 2. Parents and teenagers should have patience, respect each other, love each other. 3. Parents should state accurately to the teenager’s fears that they could understand you. 4. Teenagers should be fair with parents and share the problems 5. Parents should listen to the problems of the child and give advice. 6. Try to stay calm and control your emotions. 7. Argue only when needed. 8. Talk clearly and reasonably. If you follow these rules you will have good relations in a family And what are the secrets of happy family you can give advice to children and parents. Advices for children: Try to control your emotions, because parents dislike when we become shout, defending our opinion. Listen and understand your parents, if you can’t, try to pretend. Talk clearly and reasonably, because it’s irritating to listen indistinct answers. Make sure you understand you parent’s displeasure right. Try to explain that you self-reliant, but your behavior should be proper. Advices for parents: Keep in mind that the aim is to resolve the conflict, not to show your children that you are more powerful then they. Try to be quiet, because you condition will show your children that you want to discuss problem with them and not to criticize them. Try to understand other’s opinions. Don’t impose your view on children, different people have different opinion. If you understand that teen is right, tell him/her about it, it isn’t disgraceful to admit mistake Teen Relationship Advice in family Don’t just expect your parents to understand you. If they don’t, it could be your fault. Build bridges, do not burn them! And in any case we should be grateful to our parents.
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